black-tortoise:

cassieshawol:

black-tortoise:

cassieshawol:

kinkielass reblogged your post:

“omg stop with the assumption that they are suffering under SME and wish them to leave SME so that they can be happy. you just want them to quit SME and reunite with JYJ and make YOU happy you selfish twat”

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Apparently, kinkielass, you assumed…

Sorry for butting in ^___^

“I sometimes wish that they hadnt stayed with SM, because while they have managed to preserve the name TVXQ, keep their old songs, win awards, compete on shows, conduct interviews etc and smile while doing so…”

VS

“Can I ask you (hopefully without sounding pretentious) where I mentioned SME in my post?”

You sometimes wish they don’t stay at SM… So what do you wish they had done?

Yes, there are sad, vulnerable and weak moments, but it isn’t ALWAYS. We all have our weak moments, it doesn’t mean we are not happy. It would be ridiculous to think that Yunho and Changmin won’t be sad for what happened, they did say they were hurt and they felt mistreated for what happened, but they have also said that they didn’t regret anything.

They said that the path they chose is not a wrong one. This is what they said, over and over. I won’t ask you to deny your feelings, but please support Yunho and Changmin in this path they have chosen.

I do support Changmin and Yunho, wholeheartedly, and I can see where the remark about SM may have made it seem like I wanted them to leave.

But I dont, I just get so brokenhearted when I see them having to hide that feeling of sadness when it strikes. And I get so infuriated when fans act like there is nothing wrong, when fans say “of course they arent upset” because they blame JYJ.

Yunho and Changmin are humans and if any of us were in that kind of close relationship for ten years or more you wouldnt just be able to throw that away.

Im not asking to see them sob over missing JYJ or vice versa, I just wish sometimes that none of this had happened at all.

Thankyou for being kind in your response rather than attacking or accusatory.

xx

Purely out of curiosity… what do you wish Yunho and Changmin had done when you said you wish they hadn’t stayed in SM? On the other hand, have you ever wished ChunJaeSu never left SM?

TVXQ fans I know acknowledge Yunho and Changmin’s pain, their vulnerability and their sadness. What they don’t acknowledge is Yunho and Changmin in pain ALL THE TIME. Many people act like Yunho and Changmin is in pain because they have to choose SM over ChunJaeSu, not even considering that they might be in pain that ChunJaeSu chose to leave SM over them.

I have seen myself how easy it is to blame SM for ‘breaking up the fandom’ or ‘breaking up TVXQ’, and how blind some people are to the fact that the only people who can break TVXQ is TVXQ. No matter what SM did, in the end it was HoMin’s decision to stay, and ChunJaeSu’s decision to leave. Whatever hardship and heartache they had to experience afterward is the consequence of their actions, not something SM forced unto them.

I am happy to know that you support Yunho and Changmin as TVXQ, I wouldn’t worry about them so much, they are much happier now than they were during the whole mess. We can only wish they will be even happier in the future.

^This.

I have seen myself how easy it is to blame SM for ‘breaking up the fandom’ or ‘breaking up TVXQ’, and how blind some people are to the fact that the only people who can break TVXQ is TVXQ.

In the end it’s the five of them who broke up TVXQ. There were things more important to them than staying together as a group. Everyone always says just how important it was for the five of them to be TVXQ together. Let’s see it like this: If a five-membered TVXQ was that important to them, than the things that made them split up in the end were even more important. Something that the five treasure as much as that, shouldn’t the fans treasure it even more? That’s the reason I think it’s selfish to scream for a reunion under SM or out of SM…

CassieShawol…

Yunho and Changmin are humans and if any of us were in that kind of close relationship for ten years or more you wouldnt just be able to throw that away.

I’ve seen strong friendships of far more years broken over way smaller things :/ I do believe that Yunho and Changmin are missing the past. Missing what they had with the other three back then. But that doesn’t necessarily mean they miss the three. It doesn’t necessarily mean that, if they were on talking terms again, they still could have whatever they had back then. It’s obvious that there is something the other three did that didn’t sit right with Yunho and Changmin, that may have changed their view of the three and of the relationship they had. The people they thought each other to be back then and the people they are right now might be different… In the end we don’t know. We don’t know, so I don’t think we should base our arguments on this.